Close Reflections
Welcome to Close Reflections, a space where I share my personal journey as I transition from military service to becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT). Through these posts, I’ll offer reflections on the lessons I’ve learned from nearly two decades in the Navy, how those experiences influence my approach to therapy, and the growth and challenges I encounter along the way.
As I navigate my MFT program, clinical practicum, and the path to licensure, Close Reflections will provide an inside look at my evolving perspective on therapy, relationships, and personal development. Whether you're curious about the intersection of military life and mental health, interested in the journey of becoming a therapist, or simply seeking insights on fostering stronger connections, I invite you to join me in this exploration.

How My Military Experience Shapes My Approach to Therapy
Military service shaped my approach to therapy in ways I never expected. From Solution-Focused Brief Therapy to Crew Resource Management, the skills I built—discipline, adaptability, and mentorship—now guide my work as a future MFT. In this post, I explore how military structure and systemic thinking translate into effective therapy.

Catching Up: Lessons from the Last Few Months
The past few months have been a whirlwind—milestones, transitions, and preparing for what comes next. In December, I marked 20 years in the Navy and celebrated 19 years of marriage, two major chapters that have shaped my life in profound ways. As I step into this next phase—moving, career shifts, and adjusting to a new professional identity—I’ve been reflecting on how transitions, whether personal or national, bring challenges and opportunities for growth. Between resume prep, internships, house decluttering, and balancing family with work and school, this season has been one of adjustment, learning, and forward momentum.